Ok, tonight I was with my friends and special ones in a public restaurant. Atmosphere was awesome. The service was garbage. We were having our laughs and chit chat. Ordered and got the food. I was not in the mood for eating, so I took only a coke.
I was playing the role of the nodder. The role involves just saying YES …. NO... or simply nodding your heading in an agreeing manner.
Anyways next to us was table for four. Couple with two girls. They were busy talking about the past days of their life. Happy memories, sad ones and even embarrassing ones. From what they were talking anyone would know they are just new in friendship n just getting to know about each other.
I over heard them and their voice was most of the time catching my attention. For about 30 minutes non stop I mean none stop they were talking about one person. He was not present in the place but still gossiping on his doings. He did this that walked like this talked like that, wore that shirt this trousers. They had made a good research on the poor fellow.
I felt sympathy for the guy. He was not even there but they were talking about him, n their attitude was on like, the guys level. Maskeun aeyee onna kameh ekamu emeehun key mas ge adhadhah balaafa order uri echehi hus ves nuvi kaneynge.
After a while about 40 minutes they changed the target. Gossiping about another person.
All I know that I would not want any person to talk about me like that when im not around. Maslahathah balaa iru aeyee varah kada kameh.
So a litte advice from me:- don’t judge a book by it cover and everything that shine is not gold. Be someone who is frank. Tell your friends about what you do n don’t like about them. It wil hurt a little bit “THE TRUTH” but it always helps.
I was playing the role of the nodder. The role involves just saying YES …. NO... or simply nodding your heading in an agreeing manner.
Anyways next to us was table for four. Couple with two girls. They were busy talking about the past days of their life. Happy memories, sad ones and even embarrassing ones. From what they were talking anyone would know they are just new in friendship n just getting to know about each other.
I over heard them and their voice was most of the time catching my attention. For about 30 minutes non stop I mean none stop they were talking about one person. He was not present in the place but still gossiping on his doings. He did this that walked like this talked like that, wore that shirt this trousers. They had made a good research on the poor fellow.
I felt sympathy for the guy. He was not even there but they were talking about him, n their attitude was on like, the guys level. Maskeun aeyee onna kameh ekamu emeehun key mas ge adhadhah balaafa order uri echehi hus ves nuvi kaneynge.
After a while about 40 minutes they changed the target. Gossiping about another person.
All I know that I would not want any person to talk about me like that when im not around. Maslahathah balaa iru aeyee varah kada kameh.
So a litte advice from me:- don’t judge a book by it cover and everything that shine is not gold. Be someone who is frank. Tell your friends about what you do n don’t like about them. It wil hurt a little bit “THE TRUTH” but it always helps.
7 comments:
Hehe "Show me someone whu doesnt gossip and i will show u someone whu isnt interested in people" i saw that from a book dont remember which :S hehe well everyone knwz it isnt gud but they JUST CANT HELP doing it!! serious koh!
yeah i even talk around ppl back ... ekamu emeeehun gosh .. obinoave... dhimaakuraa faadah .... kadakameh ..
Hehe..we cant do anything abt it annnd some people just love gossiping!
annd rite now we are gossiping abt them :P
some ppl are not ppl ... >_<.. i didnt mention names
yeah i know! im trying to stop
i don't talk about others now (angelic look)
mihaaru ginain vaahaka dhakkany amilla kanthah dho, ehen kaan dhaa iru
mini bas ahaa dho? :P
sometimes i do gossip, its kinda fun knowing the gossip, but when its about me, it does hurt...
I guess it's the human nature, Im sure to include to gossip less in my new year reosolutions, =D
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